Happines+love+family.  I recently had a photo session with my brother and my new sister-in-law.  My brother is the happiest that I’ve ever seen him and that makes me one happy sister.  The whole point of being alive is to evolve into the complete person you were intended to be (yep, I just quoted Oprah)!  I think that he’s finally that person!  Best of luck to you both in your long, fabulous life together!